The Precious Ones

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Asalaam Aleykum reader.. yeah you, aren’t you going to say Aleykum Salaam back?…say it, say it…tsk tsk tsk I can’t believe I had to tell you twice, you are something else I tell you… something else.

Ok so the drill here is ; explain my absence, blame my laziness, apologize and move on to the topic… Yeah let’s assume I just did that, and move on.. so here we go.

Quran An Nisa (4:34)

“ Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard.–”

I feel like most people use this verse to somehow imply that men are better than women or above women in value or something. If you have ever felt that way then this post is for ya… and if not, it’s still for you.

Let’s start with the simple premise of what it means when something is assigned to “protect and maintain something else” tell me what is usually more precious, the thing being protected or the thing protecting?

Ever heard of the jewellery store heist where the perpetrators broke in and stole all the windows, doors, bullet proof glass and left the stones untouched?. No? really??  me neither… because that would probably land the thieves a solid position in the Guinness book of records for the dumbest idiots that ever lived.

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Men were made stronger than women in whatever aspects  in order to protect them and to guard them not to oppress and belittle them. And when men fail to perform their duties, it’s understandable that women feel betrayed and try to distance themselves from men and “make it on their own” (Hence feminism, or radical feminism) .(I feel like I’m treading across a landmine with that statement but heck it’s already out there).

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Which begs the question, why are our Muslim sisters so precious?, our mothers, daughters, sisters and wives.

Well a good guess might be because they are the key to our nation. They are the ones who toil for nine months carrying the next generation and there after feed and nurture them. Raise them.  They are the ones that pass on the teachings of Islam to our children, they are the ones who back up even their husbands who are meant to protect them, they give them peace of mind, support and love… in more ways than one…. Yes I said it! Sue me.

They are the Nations care-takers.

They are the MVP’s of the Muslim world and the World at large, but in all fairness, other than religion this applies to all our sisters in the world, Muslims and non-Muslims, so let’s treat them with the respect, tenderness and caring that they deserve.

Yes sometimes they will get emotional and irrational and you might hear things that would make you wish your super power was memory editing, but hey no one said this God-given protecting and maintaining gig was going to be easy. Yes… occasionally we might need to protect them from themselves too.

It comes with the territory. Cowboy up! We were made strong for a reason

 Our Muslim sisters are the most precious things on earth. They are worth it!

And sisters, take it easy on the brothers, you guys don’t come with a manual (no matter how much we pray you did) so technically speaking we have been winging it since Adam (AS). We will slip up every now and then, but eventually we’ll come around, so be patient with us.

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Love you all for the sake of Allah.

  • ABD
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THE MUSLIM CREED

like_a_boss_by_shirlysnowiie-d4zkqj5Swagger:  

“How one presents him or herself to the world. Swagger is shown from how the person handles a situation. It can also be shown in the person’s walk.”

Islam is more than a religion; it is a way of life. It is how we sleep, and how we wake up, how we talk and how we keep silent. It is how we treat others and how we treat ourselves. It is how we live and In Shaa Allah it is how we die.

  I call it the Muslim swagger: always cool calm and collected, kind , humble, patient, friendly, open minded, well dressed, clean, smelling good, hygienic, slow to anger, easy to forgive, polite, respectful, confident, respectful to women, respectful to our parents and elders, knowledge seekers.

   Aren’t all these things part of the Sunnah of the Prophet (PBUH). A person who has worked or is working to gain these qualities today, won’t he be considered a great role model? better yet, a great leader?

This is what we should strive for. As Muslims we have been given all the solutions to understanding the life of this world and all the knowledge we need to be the best of people, we have what leaders should be made of, we have all the keys to whatever type of success we seek to achieve. But sometimes we are too lazy to even reach in our pockets and take them out to unlock the doors.

  If we truly try to live as Allah commands, as Islam demands and as the Prophet (PBUH) lived and instructed. Then there is no doubt we would be the best of people. This is the Muslim creed.

You wake up for fajr for Allah, You pray five times a day for Allah, You study for the sake of Allah, you work for the sake of Allah, You do everything for Allah. Then what do you have to fear?

Surah An-Nisa 4: 147

“What would Allah do with your punishment if you are grateful and believe? And ever is Allah Appreciative and Knowing.”

I would like to end this by saying…

Spaaaarrtttttaaaannnnsssss!!

You know what it is.

TRUE STORY.

-ABD

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